Open Fidelity and Quakerism

I was at Britain Yearly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers) last weekend, so it seems a good time to write something about how my being a Quaker relates to Open Fidelity.
Firstly, if you don’t know much about Quakers, there is a great website about it here and another here. Everything I say [...]

Kinds of Open Fidelity

The relationship structures of the people I have interviewed can be fitted into four models. They illustrate four different ways in which you can go about honest nonmonogamy. Different models work best for different people, and there is some overlap between them. It is possible to change from one model to another over time.
The first [...]

Promises

One of the key principles of Open Fidelity is to do with promises, and I want to look at this in more detail here.
There are three main aspects:

keeping the promises you make
avoiding making promises that you don’t think you will be able to keep
renegotiating your promises rather than breaking them

All three are essential.First of all, [...]