One of the key principles of Open Fidelity is to do with promises, and I want to look at this in more detail here.
There are three main aspects:
keeping the promises you make
avoiding making promises that you don’t think you will be able to keep
renegotiating your promises rather than breaking them
All three are essential.First of all, [...]
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OK, I’ve talked about the problems with both monogamy and cheating. Is there another way?
Yes - it’s called Open Fidelity.
I think it’s time for an overview of what I mean by Open Fidelity. The following statements sum it up.
People can love more than one person at a time.
There are people in honest, responsible relationships between [...]
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This week in the Daily Telegraph, Angela Levin has a series of three articles investigating ‘why the UK is in the grip of an infidelity epidemic’. They are headed ‘Desperately seeking someone’, ‘Being unfaithful keeps me happy’ and ‘Adultery isn’t the end - it’s a wake-up call’.
She has interviewed over a hundred people who [...]
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In last Thursday’s Guardian, Pamela Stephenson Connolly responds to a man whose male lover says he is interested in involving another man in their life and who is afraid it could cause problems in their relationship. I’m quite impressed with the column (here).
She says: “Threesomes (whether purely sexual or otherwise) can work, but the setting up [...]
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